Inclinations and Epiphanies
Background, Philosophy May 15th, 2007The following is a list of events from my past that have helped make the principles of 4HWW resonate so strongly with me:
- 1980’s: My elementary school is the first in the state to switch to a “year-round” schedule. I learn the value of, and become accustomed to, shorter bursts of focused work with vacations spread throughout.
- 1993: I spend 2 months at a summer camp in rural New York called Camp Rising Sun. I work and play with 100 boys and girls from around the world, gain a real love for people and languages of other cultures, and make lifelong international friends whom I promise to visit someday.
- 1996-98: I volunteer for a 2-year service mission to central Canada through my church, which changes my perspective on life. Related to 4HWW, I learn two valuable lessons: 1- Serving other people really does bring happiness. 2- It’s possible, and quite liberating, to live for two years out of two suitcases and on a minimal budget.
- 1999: For a class assignment, I read “E-Myth Revisited,” (one of the books Tim references in 4HWW) and it changes my perspective on entrepreneurship.
- 2000- I watch my best friend’s father retire from decades of working in the public school system. A year later he returns to the school system where he continues to work today.
- 2000- My college Economics professor instills in me a strong understanding of the concepts of opportunity cost and sunk cost. I never look at time, money, nor material possessions the same again.
- 2001- I decide and begin to declare that I want to be semi-retired at age 45. I qualify the statement with “semi” because I recognize that another 50 years of not working at all is ridiculous. I also get used to answering the question of “what will you do with your time?”
- 2002- Much to my delight, I discover an article entitled “Retire at 45,” which I write about. Thus begins my quest to avoid large homes, particularly the millstone-collar mortgage that accompanies them.
- 2002- Upon moving to Chicago for graduate school, Chelsey and I sell our car and move into a studio apartment; two things considered very unconventional for a married couple (especially to our friends back home). This allows us to enjoy the city lifestyle we want without incurring significant debt.
- 2003- I take a semester off from grad school to spend time on my own business endeavors, and I consider transferring to CMU. The counselor at school asks me if I’m stupid. After spending the semester building up my Flash skills and developing one of my muses ( WebSort ), I return to school. Chris Conley and John Grimes become my mentors.
- 2005- As graduation approaches, I form my favorite conversation-starting question: “So, if you could work from anywhere for one year, and have the same job you do now, where would you live?”
- 2006- With a new baby, the worry of health insurance, and a very sexy-sounding project waiting for me, I take a “real” job and we move to the Boston area. At first things are fantastic. Eventually, the call of entrepreneurship becomes too strong.
- 2007- I resign, giving longer-than-usual notice in order to help finish the project. A week later I come across 4HWW via 43Folders. Chelsey and I listen to Tim’s presentation from SxSW, and we decide to really go for it.
Finally, here are some past entries from my personal site that came to mind as I read 4HWW:
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June 27th, 2007 at 12:51 pm
I find your site so interesting as I am
* someone who has just (in the past week) discovered Getting Things Done (which I’m only 20 pages into) and have just recently read about 4HWW (which I’m about to go buy)
* a software consultant of 9 years and a working mother for the past 2.5 years
I’m excited to see how 4HWW goes for a young family.
July 22nd, 2007 at 1:15 am
I too am fascinated to see how the 4HWW goes for a young family. We are expecting our 2nd child early next year but we aren’t quite ready to go the full 4HWW adventure definitely thinking about it though. Best of luck!
March 16th, 2008 at 9:55 pm
What advice would you give to a 21 year-old kid? (who also just got back from a mission.) I’m like you in that I like to learn all kinds of different things and want to do everything. If you could start from 21 what would you do different?